n-BOOTY-CALL-large570Single and Ready to Mingle: Booty Call to Boo

Hey my Single Loves!!!! How are you doing? I hope that you all had a great weekend. I had a busy weekend but hey that is the life of me; busy, busy, busy. I know eactly why now I can’t date the right way. I am too damn busy. I have a kid to care for; who is a social butterfly and has to be at every single event that she is invited to. I work a full time job and have been working overtime for the last month. On top of that I have like four projects that I am currently over outside of my job. Imagine what my life is like. I do have some work and life balance. One is taking a position with my company to work from home. Yes I work from home, so now I am here all day but the thing is this, no one else can be here while I am working so that sucks. I am glued to this spot for 8-10 hours a day. (My butt hurts). I am such the social person that the silence is crazy for me. I am use to people calling my name all the time and asking me questions. I guess that is what 14 years with the company will do to you. This is not what this blog is about.. HAHAHAHA

I took myself to see “About Last Night” yes I stole some “me time” in the middle of a busy weekend. It was about 10:00pm and I was the only person in the theater. Dating me, myself and I is something that my busy life has brought me to. I am good company to myself (LOL). This date movie was hilarious but I am sure some people saw themselves throughout the whole movie. Yes you and you saw yourself. I say that because how many onetime sex sessions were really supposed to be just that and they turned into dating, then to long term relationships. I can even admit that I have done this myself. (Raises had and looks around) That leads to the question can a “booty call” become your mate. Here is what my Facebook friends had to say.

Red Man: I wouldn’t trust it. Too many have tried and failed miserably.

Renata Pennix: Yep. .it turned out to be a 9 year relationship..learned a lot from it

Wax Lauren: It shouldn’t, but some I believe start that way. Desperate people look for love wherever they can find it.

Renata Pennix : I wouldn’t necessarily say desperate.. ppl change a booty call to a boo thang bc one party or both becomes comfortable and then the emotional part start and someone wants to be claimed bc at this time instead of spending the “booty” hours together u guys are spending “time” together which changes everything..in order for it to go that far someone let it…if ur not feeling the “booty” as “boo” u need to stop all sexual encounters bc it will get ugly

Wax Lauren: as I was hitting the send button..your exact comment popped in my brain. You are exactly correct.

Here is my answer; yes I think it is very possible and Renata made some good points. Once you start spending time outside of that bedroom it can take a turn. You then get to know the real person, not just the sexual person. You start having real conversations about life. Hey it sounds like I have been there. (and have) It wasn’t a bad relationship and we are even better friends now. The sex has stopped but we are still friends. The big picture is this. It is what you make it. Feels do sometimes get involved and what will you do when that happens.

Happy Dating

XOXOXOXo

E. Ahdai

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