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Does my Single life offend you?

 

It has been a while since I have blogged about anything. Let’s just say life has a way of happening. Things happen so fast and you don’t know if you are coming or going.  I will say I have been keeping myself busy, I do wish I could say that I have been dating.  That I have not been doing but we will talk about that later.  But before we do, does my single life offend you?

 

One thing that I do is people watch, and I watch very quietly. I have noticed a few men on my Facebook page are obsessed with why some many black women are single.  Most of them think that is something wrong with them. I beg to differ. Just because a woman is beautiful, smart, successful that she can’t be single; she is bat shit crazy.  Here is my response to that piece of thinking; Beautiful women get treated badly every single day. She is told that that no one will ever love her the way he has loved her. So she begins to think this. She tolerates the verbal abuse until she can’t take it anymore. There is always a man who has torn her down to the point that hits rock bottom. Once she finds the courage to leave; it is then up to her to pull herself back together.  So what if it takes her little bit of time to get back to herself; you can’t rush her healing process. I am sure you don’t want to pay for the mistakes of another man. Be glad she has the sense enough to relationship hop.  The moral of this story is this; never judge her before having a conversation with her because you will be wrong.  Sometimes being single is a choice and we having the right to choose.

I feel like what I do in my single life shouldn’t have anything to do with you. If I want to be single the rest of my life then let me be. If I want to go about be with every single man, then that is my choice. I have the right to live my single black ass life.

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